Love & other funny things

“Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all”

If we base our idea of what true love is on fairy-tales we might think that finding our prince charming and living happily ever after is the ultimate goal. But we need to rethink here, W. Disney gave us unrealistic expectations of real love – thats why almost all fairy-tails end on the wedding day, reality starts the day after.  Reality is that being and staying in love takes continual work and patience. Couples who have an healthy relationship find ways of working together, I guess we need to love ourselves before we try to love another human being.

Yesterday I was talking to one of my best friends and he had a completely different point of view, he said that he couldn’t be married to someone simply because he likes the “change”. People who are “in love” get married one day. Yes, there are high divorce rates we need to keep in mind that the reasons why some relationships end is that the partners grow apart because they have changed as individuals, and seek different, more fulfilling opportunities for love, or want, just like my friend, the “change”. 

My grandparents, they love each other and you can still see it when they look at each other – true love does exist for those who want it to.

 

Good night,

Hatice

 

 

 

 

Eğer gerçek aşkı masallardan anlamaya calisirsak mutlu son ve sonsuza dek aşk hayaline giriyoruz. W. Disney bize gerçek aşki gerçek tarafindan göstermedi – o yüzden bütün masallar aşik olunca biter ve sonra neler yasanir bilemeyiz.

Sağlıklı bir ilişki icin Çiftler birlikte çalışma yollarını bulmak zorunda, bence zaten başka bir insani sevmeye kalkmadan önce kendimizi sevmek gerekir sanırım.

Dün en iyi arkadaşlarımdan biri ile bu konu hakkinda konustuk ve onun bakış acisi benim’kinden cok farklı oldugunu anladim, kimse ile evli olamam ben dedi, değişimi seviyormus. Zaten bana sorarsaniz insanlar neden ayrilir? -> Büyürler, bakis acilari degişir ya da arkadaşim gibi sadece degişime ihtiyac duyarlar. Ama beraber kalalar da var, dedem ve anneannem gibi, birbirlerini seviyorlar ve birbirlerine baktıklarinda o aşk hala gözlerinde belli oluyor - gerçek aşk bu iste, yasamak isteyenler yasar. 

 

Iyi geceler,

Hatice

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